Elizabeth Murray, 2nd
Countess of Dysart, Lady Tollemache, Duchess of Lauderdale
Born September 1626 – died 5 June 1698
Elizabeth Murray aged 18 painted by Peter Lely in 1648
Which hangs in Ham House
Scotsman William
Murray, his wife Catherine Bruce Murray and their four daughters lived at Ham
House on the Thames at Richmond, a property given to them by King Charles I to
mark their close boyhood friendship when William would accept a whipping for
the transgressions of the young prince.
When the
Civil War broke out in 1642, as Gentleman of the Bedchamber, William joined his
royal master at the exiled court in Oxford after the Battle of Edgehill that
drove King Charles out of London. Created 1st Earl of Dysart for his loyalty, he
continued carrying messages through enemy lines.
In 1648, the
Murrays arranged a marriage between Elizabeth and Sir Lionel Tollemache, 3rd
Baronet, of Helmingham Hall in Suffolk, a wealthy and cultivated squire whose
family came to England with the Norman invasion. They had eleven children, of
whom five survived to adulthood.
Renowned
as a political schemer, Elizabeth was rumoured to have been Oliver Cromwell’s mistress
while also an active member of The Sealed Knot, the secret organisation
supporting the exiled King Charles II. Even before Earl Tollemache's death in
1669, Elizabeth, as Lady Dysart, was rumoured to have formed an attachment to
the ambitious John Maitland, 1st Duke of Lauderdale, Secretary of State for
Scotland.
Lauderdale’s
wife, jealous of her husband’s friendship with the widowed Lady Tollemache,
went to live in Paris and died there. Only a few weeks after her death, Lauderdale, now one of the most powerful
ministers of Charles II and Elizabeth scandalised London by marrying. Over the
next ten years the pair lavished money on Ham House, extending and refurbishing
it as a palatial villa reflecting the Duke's status. One of Elizabeth’s extravagances
was a garden on the west side of the house where she had forty cherry trees
planted, her favourite fruit which were exclusively for her own use.*
Lauderdale
eventually quarrelled with the King and after a stroke, died in 1682, leaving the
Duchess almost penniless. Elizabeth’s final years were spent in gentile poverty
at her beloved Ham House, vilified by society and abandoned by her children,
the triumphs of her remarkable life largely forgotten.
Inspiration For Royalist Rebel
If you visit
Ham House, which has been restored to the way it looked during Elizabeth’s
lifetime, this is the woman the guides talk about; an irascible, embittered
widow stripped of her glory. They hold ghost evenings at Ham, recounting tales of the old lady’s spirit that roams the mansion tapping the floors
with her stick, her small dog at her side while the scent of attar of roses
permeates her favourite rooms announcing her ghostly presence.
In the
gallery is the above portrait of Elizabeth, painted by Sir Peter Lely when she was
eighteen. This was the young woman I wanted to discover and subsequently began
writing about - the beautiful, intelligent and passionate young girl on the
verge of womanhood who was dedicated to Ham House, the Royalist cause and the
men in her life; her father William Murray, son of a minister who rose to
become King Charles’ friend and confidant, Lionel Tollemache, her husband of
twenty years who adored her, Oliver Cromwell who was fascinated by her, and
John Maitland, Duke of Lauderdale, Charles II’s favourite on whom he heaped
honours and riches, only to ostracise him after a bitter quarrel.
Royalist
Rebel is the story of that girl.
Anita’s Blog
– The Disorganised Author
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Rebel Blog- http://royalistrebel.blogspot.com
Ham House
Website
* During a recent visit to Ham House, Anita was told that the National Trust intend re-planting the forty cherry trees in
Elizabeth’s garden, just as it was in the 1670’s.
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4 comments:
Loved your review of Royalist Rebel!I so enjoy visiting your blog!I have learned so many things about the different women in history that I never knew existed. I so appreciate you sharing this with the rest of the world.This is another book I will add to my wish list! Thanks again!
Loved your post. I tweeted.
Thank you for the lovely compliment, Tammy. I am so glad you enjoy the blog as much as I do. Keep an eye on Anita Seymour. She's sure to reach great heights.
Thanks so much for hosting me on your blog Mirella, and for the lovely things you said. Royalist Rebel will be out at the end of next week, and I am thrilled so many people seem to want to read it.
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